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first year at site

peacecorps life
Thursday, 15 March 2007

We are well into mango season and I couldn’t be happier. Right now I am averaging about half a dozen mangoes a day. I love them all. Even the not quite ripe ones are fabulous, like apples! Other than bananas, which are available year round, this is the first time I have had easy access to fruit. I am not the only one; my village is mango mad too! Everywhere you look you see people carrying a mango or two. The kids will fight over who gets the best piece of fruit. They are literally everywhere. I just walk outside my door, reach up and grab breakfast off of the nearest tree. Yummmm!!!!!!!!

I woke up this morning to an unusual sound. It was like a hail storm. Loud thumps as mysterious objects hit the ground. This was with the sound of the trees shaking it what sounded like a large winter storm. The kids were screaming and in general it was complete mayhem. My curiosity took me outside to see what was going on. I quickly discovered that it was the mangoes! My family was harvesting the mangoes to be sold in town. The boys were up in the trees shaking them so that the mangoes would fall to the ground. Everywhere I looked it was raining fruit. Occasionally one would knock you on the head, which accounted for the screaming kids. The women would pick them up off the ground and put them in large sacks. The few mangoes that survived the shaking would get knocked down with large sticks. They wouldn’t let me climb a tree (boys only apparently), but i did get a go with the big stick. It was very therapeutic. Luckily they left two of my family’s trees alone so we still have mangoes for us to eat. Who knew that harvesting fruit could be so much fun!


Posted by jesslsingleton at 11:16 AM CDT
Updated: Wednesday, 4 April 2007 5:46 PM CDT
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Wednesday, 28 February 2007
February 29, 2007

     I have completed a talk on nutrition for the women in my village.  It went very well. 

     The planning took a while.  Getting everyone I need to talk to in the same room to make something happen, is always the most difficult part of my job. 

     I made some visual aids on large pieces of paper.  One was a picture of a malnourished child and the other was of a healthy child.  My counterparts and I talked about the information the night before to work out all of the details.

     The day of the talk I spent all of my morning rounding everyone up.  It started about two hours late which is actually pretty good.  When we were talking about food groups a very large discussion about eggs took over the show.  Everyone in my village thinks that eggs are bad for kids, they will make a person infertile, and other various horrible things will happen to anyone who eats eggs.  We spent two hours trying to convince the women that eggs are great for the kids to eat.  I don't think we changed any minds, but at least we started the conversation.  Overall it went well.  People are talking about nutrition and I feel that I have accomplished some work. 

     Next week I am holding a girls club meeting so I am excited to see how that turns out.


Posted by jesslsingleton at 6:52 PM CST
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Friday, 16 February 2007
February 16, 2007

     Alright, so I am in town on a mini-vacation from my village with another volunteer, Kacy.  We decided to make chicken and dumplings for lunch.  Seems like a normal natural thing to make, but little did we know that lunch would turn into a 5 hour adventure. 

     First of all is the shopping.  There is no such thing as a quick run to the store.  We went to the market to buy supplies.  Every purchase requiring ten minutes of greeting and another five minutes of bargaining using about three languages along the way. 

     Then came the chicken.  After selecting our bird and bargaining for a decent price, we proudly carried our bird back to the house hanging from the handle bars of Kacy's bike.  You would think that a chicken would put up a fight being carried upside down hanging by its feet on a bicycle.  To my surprise it was perfectly calm for the trip.  Once we got home, we immediately started giving reasons why it would be better for the other one of us to actually kill the bird.  The bid got pretty high. starting with the promise of washing dishes, to finally ending up offering a year of laundry services in exchange for the other person to cut the head off the chicken.  When it became clear that neither one of us had the nerve to do the deed, we asked our security guard at the regional house to do the chicken in for us.  He just laughed, rolled his eyes in a silly American kind of way, took the bird and came back 30 seconds later with a very dead animal.  We then poured hot water over it to loosen the feathers, and started plucking.  This took forever!!!  The worst part was that the guard only cut its throat, so it still had its eyes.  I refused to go near the bird until Kacy cut off the head and feet.  After that it was not a problem.  It just looked like a furry version of what you see at the grocery story.  A few minutes later we are both up to our elbows in feathers, plucking away.  It took about an hour to get it completely de-feathered.  We made quick work of gutting and slicing up the meat.  We chose the biggest rooster they had but there was still very little meat on the bone and it was pretty tough meat. 

     Finally after may hours of work, we got to enjoy the results of our efforts. Quite a wonderful dish of chicken and dumplings.


Posted by jesslsingleton at 6:06 AM CST
Updated: Friday, 23 March 2007 6:52 PM CDT
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Monday, 22 January 2007

I am starting to question my usefulness. I have spent a lot of time reading, writing, studying, and just enjoying a quiet life. But now the feelings of guilt are creeping in. I am not here to enjoy a quiet lifestyle. I am not on a two  year vacation. I am here to do work. I have done some work. The girls soccer team is going strong, the baby weighing has been started, and the matron is well on her way. Despite all of this, it seems like I should be doing more. I choose passive rather than active roles.  Most of my days are very boring, days when I basically do nothing at all. I can't help but feel like I am wasting my opportunity to help. I am making a difference in my community, but is it enough? Should I be doing more? Even now I have chosen not to go out and do health work, but to sit here and write about wishing I was doing health work! My natural instinct is to go slow, achieve my work goals, but not get in a big hurry about it.

Peace Corps has listed three goals for volunteer service: 1. cultural exchange for the community served to learn about American life, 2. cultural exchange for Americans to learn about others' communities, 3. development goals, health in my case. So even the Peace Corps says that my health work is only a third of what I should be doing here. However, no matter how much I justify my life here, I still feel guilty about my work ethic and my impact on my village. I need to decide if the work I am doing is enough to justify my service. If it isn't then I need to stop the pitty party and get off my butt and do something! Unfortunately this is much easier said than done.


Posted by jesslsingleton at 9:18 AM CST
Updated: Thursday, 15 February 2007 7:32 PM CST
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Sunday, 7 January 2007

I am back in my village after my parents' visit. It was a great trip. It was wonderful to see them. There is so much about Senegal that is impossible to explain. You have to experience it yourself or you will never completely understand. Now my parents have seen my village ridden in sept-places and ate Senegalese food. It was exciting to be able to share these experiences with them.

Now that the cold season is here I have started a garden. You can’t garden in the summer because of the extreme heat. It is going well. The watering is time-consuming because I have to go to the water pump in the middle of the village. But it helps keep me busy. I am having some pest problems but I am working on it. Everyone in the village is interested in the garden, maybe it will catch on.

            UPDATE: it is three weeks later, goats have eaten the entire garden, It is too late in the season to replant. I will try again next year will a better fence.


Posted by jesslsingleton at 10:22 AM CST
Updated: Saturday, 27 January 2007 6:33 PM CST
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Tuesday, 12 December 2006

On the surface, the women here have very little power. The men make the decisions, the women do the work. The gender roles are very clearly defined, but I am now starting to see that the women hold a great deal of power. They just display it differently. For example, my host brother has two wives, Safi and Aminatta. They split the work evenly between them, each cooking half of the meals. Lately Safi has been going to visit family in another village, staying for several days at a time. Aminatta disapproved of her long trips, but could not say anything about it directly. That is when I saw the true power of  the women here. They control the food! Aminatta simply stopped cooking dinner, after all that was Safi’s job. When her husband asked about it, she just said that dinner was Safi’s job and he would have to wait untill she got back from her visit. The men complained but did not want to cook themselves. Aminatta turned her problem into everybody’s problem.

When Safi got back her husband told her that she could not travel to see her sister anymore because she needed to take care of her responsibilities at home. Needless to say, Safi was not very happy with the new restrictions on her travel. She cooked dinner like she was supposed to. But her unhappiness was soon very apparent. A week straight of plain rice for dinner will get anyone’s attention! Thankfully they have come to a compromise about Safi’s travels and equal division of the work load at home, and dinner has finally returned to normal.


Posted by jesslsingleton at 7:36 AM CST
Updated: Monday, 1 January 2007 4:37 PM CST
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Wednesday, 29 November 2006

Topic: first year at site

 I can’t believe how much things are changing! I was warned that it would happen, I thought I was prepared for it to happen, I was ready for it, and I expected it. However it is still hard to believe. For example, I knew that Daniel and Dorothy were planning their wedding. I also new that due to peace corps regulations restricting travel during the first six months of service, I would not be able to attend. Missing the wedding was incredibly difficult and something that I will always regret, but I new that missing the wedding was unavoidable. It was hard, but I dealt with it.

I just heard that Jennifer and Gavin are engaged! I am thrilled and could not be happier. I am so thankful that my siblings have found the love and happiness that they deserve so much.  But I have to say that in the back of my mind there is a nagging voice that is wondering what home will be like when I get back. Of course, my living in Senegal has nothing to do with all the changes that are occurring, they would happen regardless of what my address is. But being here so far away, it is affecting me differently than it would if I were home. I don’t have the "transition time”, the gradual pace that change usually happens. Instead it will hit me all at once when my service is over.  I know that for every change that I anticipate there will be five that surprise me.

            Don’t get me wrong. I love how things are changing! I am thrilled that the people I love are finding their paths in life. I just wish I was there to witness it first hand. I know that I will see the end product. I will come home to find my siblings settled in to happy successful marriages. However, it is not the final destination that counts in life, it is the journey. It is the journey that I am missing and grieving.


Posted by jesslsingleton at 5:33 AM CST
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Saturday, 11 November 2006

The sounds of my village captivate me. I expected a small village in the middle of nowhere to be a quiet peaceful place. Where at the end of the day I would have the time and space for meditation, quiet reflection, and soul searching. This image could not be farther from the truth. The village is loud at night, full of sounds of pots banging as women cook dinner, old radios playing, cow, chickens, goats, sheep, two very loud donkeys, the sound of girls pounding corn, a two-year olds temper tantrum, a babies laugh.

The amazing thing is how fare sound travels here. I can hear conversations in the next compound. The buzz of recess and the roar from the football field can be heard all the way across the village. A baby’s cry seems to travel for miles.

            At the same time the small insignificant sounds seem to magnify. Crickets can be deafening, the scrape of a lizards claws on my concrete floor can wake me up at night. So instead of quiet reflection, I lie down, close my eyes and just listen to the unique orchestra of my village at night.


Posted by jesslsingleton at 5:49 AM CST
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Thursday, 9 November 2006

 

            The girl’s club had another meeting today. This time we played football. It went surprisingly well. I though I would have trouble convincing the girls to play. I was wrong. They jumped at the chance to show the boys that they can play too. Although, I think I was the only one trying to make a social statement, the girls just wanted to have fun! We played during the school break. It was incredibly hot, but it was the only time the girls had free. After school they are busy with chores. The girls are excited about starting a league but they want different shoes. I have to agree with them you can’t play football in flip-flops. I am going to try to convince them to raise the money themselves, or else they will have to convence the boys to let them use their shoes. I am NOT buying 15 pairs of shoes! They need to learn to work for what they want, they can’t expect others to give them what they need. OK, I will stop before this turns into a rant about development work (and why it doesn’t).

            Overall, the girls club seems to be up and running. Now I am going to try and make progress with the midwife training. It has been more difficult. I have been having trouble arranging a meeting with the doctor in Kedougou. I always seem to pick the wrong time to meet with him. So I have had several false starts but I am not giving up. My village will get a qualified mid-wife!


Posted by jesslsingleton at 5:35 AM CST
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Friday, 27 October 2006
first girl's club meeting

I had the first girls club meeting today! It went really well. We had it in the morning. Time is a very flexible concept here, so it started later than I wanted. I ended up having to go to each compound to get the girls. It must have been an incredible site. I was walking around the village with a group of girls walking behind me, the line getting longer with as we passed by each house.

            I had originally planned to have the girls draw picture of things that they are good at and are proud of. This culture is centered on negative reinforcement. People are quick to point out what you are bad at and practically ignoring your successes. I wanted the give the girls a chance to celebrate what they are good at. However, they struggled to understand what I wanted them to do. They were completely lost. Creative thinking is a very western concept, I have discovered. Some of the girls were just staring at the paper holding crayon, looking terrified that they might make a mistake. So I backed off and tried something much simpler, they drew self-portraits. They loved it. It was the right combination of creative and concrete. They were drawing, but still basically copying each others stick figures. The girls are colored their clothing differently, some had crazy patterns and others colorful stripes. I could see the pictures getting my unique as time went on. Hopefully with time the girls will be able to draw and express more abstract ideas. I am planning on meeting about once week.  Sometimes it will be more serious and we will talk about school, health, self-esteem, and waiting to get married (some girls marry as early as 14). Other times it will be more fun. Next week we are going to play foot ball! At least we will try. I only see the boys playing. I t is going to be a challenge to get the girls out there. If it goes well we might try to get a league going.  


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